Okay, before i get onto the whole friendship issue thing I just would like to tell everyone that i've been in school since september and it i so hard and i have no time to get on here and talk to all you lovely people. My days are super long, school starts at 8:00am and ends at 3:30pm. Girl, what were they thinking with those hours? Not sure.
Just a heads up before i inform everyone i just would like to say that this IS about one particular person. I will not say his name because I wanna be the bigger person. But shit needs to be addressed girl. So we've known each other for about 9 years, we grew up on the same street so shit's all good. He have are arguments and our fights but this Is a problem. We were supposed to hang out one day. I'll put it on record that this WAS planned out. We were gonna walk around and eat but then shit got real.
I spent the night at my mommom's house who lives right up the street from this guy. I was walking up to the door and i heard yelling. I was thinking to myself "That is fuckin loud girl" and I'm pretty sure we all know when we have friends we would like the best for them and that's what i wanted for this friend in particular. Then i heard a voice talking about me! and incase anyone was wondering the voice was this guys dad. He was saying all this bullshit like "ever since he was hanging out with me that this boy went downhill" and the door opened. The boy was sitting on the couch crying and the asshole of a father walks over and said (Blank) is not hanging out and slammed the door in my face.
Okay, i don't really care about the whole slamming of the door because if he was not on the couch and there were people in the house, the door would have been down his fucking throat. What struck me is that this guy "Friend" didn't even move off the couch. Oh, okay.
I was the person that let you stay over my house. I let you borrow my makeup, clothes and my art supplies. When you came out as transgendered i was the one who supported you the most over any of your friends and you have the nerve to sit on the fucking couch and act like i'm not there. That is not necessary and you might need to rethink yourself.
So i told my mom about it because she's like my best friend. I told her the whole situation and she was pissed. So a couple weeks passes by. My mom's texting back and forth with this guys dad and his dad is trying to look innocent. GIRL, NOOO WE DON"T NEED ALL OF THAT. So new years comes. I stopped at my mommom's house to wish her a happy new year. The street that she lives on is very social so they're always having a party for something. His dad was sitting in the house like a coward.
I don't know what he said to my mom in one of the text messages but i heard it wasn't good. All that's over with. We leave and my dad wanted to stop at 7/11 to get a pepsi. Sure enough this boy was in there. I was in the car with my mom and i could not stop laughing because he was literally to still and so awkward. He was with his friend who i'm friends with so i told him not to say anything in front of her because i would feel bad for our friend. My mom rolls dow the window and says "Happy New Year (Blank)" Not to the boy but to his friend. The boy started laughing. Like, you're not cute.
The moral of the story is to always stay around positive people. Never make yourself feel bad because of another persons actions. I don't plan on ever being friends with him again. I have made better friend in 4 months than i have with him (8 years)
Just stay away from fake people. they're not worth it..